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Spring Begins

So Spring is here, and of course after a few days of some OK weather we get slammed with snow.  I woke up to a blanket of snow in the morning and then a little blizzard for a couple hours in the afternoon.  It’s high 70s in Atlanta, GA today and where my parents are in Augusta, GA it’s almost 80.  That’s sickening given the fact we’re freezing up here and Spring was supposed to be in swing.  I really don’t think I’ll miss the winters here if we move, I really don’t.  I’ll miss the snow in terms of how it can look sometimes, but it lasts for a few moments and then you just want it gone.  The more Denise and I talk, the more we’re sure we’ll likely be out of here sometime in the late fall.  I just don’t think this is the place for us.  Most of our spiritual support among friends will be gone by the Fall as almost all of them are leaving and going south or west.  It’s funny how God has surrounded me over the past 2 years with people who’re all going to seminary.  It’s been a real pleasure having a solid group of friends who love the Bible, love to discuss theology, etc. and now they’re all getting engaged and married and leaving.

I really would like to be closer to my parents as well.  They still have their house here, my family is still here mostly, but it’s them I really want to be near, even if that means a couple hours drive.  I mean I’m all for “leaving my father and mother and clinging to my wife,” but they’re still the closest family I have.  Luckily it’s not just me because Denise has a sister in GA and apparently she (Denise) has wanted to go south for years.  If we didn’t meet she probably would’ve been down there already!  Funny how things work out huh?  So I’m trying to figure out financially how we could make this happen.  It’s possible her Sister would get a new house and rent the old and we’d have first dibs, a perfect setup to be honest…until we find out what we’re doing or get a house of our own but that’s not looking like it will happen.  It still might but it’s more unlikely now than it was just a month ago.  Either way I think we’re going, it’s just how and when.  Lease here in our apartment is up in October so the timing would be good so I’m not penalized for waiting then getting out of my lease.  I HATE moving so I hope wherever we find to go I like it enough to stay for a while if need be.  I don’t think we’ll get a house right away since I want a good down payment, but I don’t want to wait more than 3 years either.  For those of you who read the blog more often, we’re not NOT trying to have kids (most of you know what that means) so we’ll see when God Blesses us with our first (of many I hope) little one.  How quickly we have them will likely push me into getting a house even sooner then I “plan” to.  Anything can happen.

Atlanta is still the place I believe though.  It’s Hollywood of the East with tons of resources, and a few people there I know, Denise’ sister, etc.  Lots of churches down there, but I think we already found the first one we’ll try.  It’s smaller, family integrated, reformed (important), and I’ve already emailed the pastor to dialog and we both think Denise and I would be a good fit if we go.  It’s likely we won’t find an apartment much cheaper than the one here, since Atlanta is very comparable to the Buffalo area in terms of the cost of living.  Certain things definitely are cheaper down there though!  Weather is going to be great for a portion of the year, then absolutely kill me for the summer.  I’m guessing I lose a lot of weight in 2012, like a melting ice cube.  Luckily, everything has AC down there, LOL.  People know better.  I think it’s a great place to go and make movies given the resources there, film companies and crew, actors, and it’s very business friendly.  Also, Atlanta is the best place to travel from.  You can fly anywhere from Atlanta and because of that it’s been the busiest airport in the world since 1982 or something like that.  The traffic in the city is AWFUL, and not just on the highways but on the side streets as well (some have told me it’s worse there), but whatever it’ll be something we have to deal with.  We won’t be going into the city anyways, but in the towns around it.  Snellville is where Denise sister lives, and apparently some people I know are familiar with it (Rich Christiano who I work with had The Secrets of Jonathan Sperry play there as one of his theaters when it released).

Since we’ve begun development of the new film we’re doing, I’ve already taken on some of the producing duties really early on to figure out what we’ll likely be doing, who we could hire, what we would be shooting on this time, etc.  I have a special surprise coming in the mail for myself tomorrow and I look forward to playing with it.  It needs a lot of accessories and I’ll show a picture in a later post, but I’m incredibly excited.  Between this and the MacBook Pro I got recently, I’ve definitely taken a hit in the financial department, but all of this is investment.  Between the costs before production started on STANDING FIRM, and the money spent afterwards and on marketing from me personally, I think I myself spent the average American salary on it, half of that in the last 12 months…so I’ve seen my bank account flux like a roller-coaster.  It’s just the name of the game when you do this stuff.  Lots of people when it comes to camera prefer to rent their setup for the duration of a shoot, but I want to know my camera and have experience with it.  Even if I’m not the one shooting from a producing / directing standpoint I need to be confident of what the film will look like.  Oops, did I give away what it is I bought? :P  Yes this stuff is always a gamble, because equipment in this field isn’t cheap, but when you have a real purposeful purpose for it, it’s worth it.  Being a techie and camera nerd it’s just wonderful too, LOL.  I get all giggly and stupid when I get new gear.  I’ll need to get a new desktop this year as well because it’s starting to show its age.  I got it before we even did STANDING FIRM and that was 4 years ago this April.  It’s old enough that my new laptop is actually benchmarked to be twice as fast.  Insane isn’t it, how technology progresses?

So the Spring has started, work has been very busy and some new stuff has come in again since my last post.  STANDING FIRM continued to do well with some promotions coming up for Father’s Day which I hope are successful.  Always a gamble to advertise, so we’ll see.  If all goes well, the film will be in Brazil and surrounding areas soon, so that’s exciting.  Some folks in Singapore, China are going to show the film to their church and use it as a fundraiser :) Anybody who is international who has contacted me to screen the film to their congregation I’ve just given away for free since the shipping costs I would have to charge are too much.  It’s been sorta fun to get their responses and see how excited they are.  God is good, and I’m glad the film continues to make an impact.  One of the cool things about the Christian market is you never really have to stop marketing your stuff.  Every year the film will find new people who have never heard of it.  It’ll slow down for sure, but it’ll never truly go down to zero, especially since this is a small film and by the time I bet a number of years have gone by the amount we’ve sold in the grand scheme of things won’t be MONSTROUS.  You just don’t sell hundreds of thousands of copies in this market.  Some of the most successful out there besides the Sherwood movies and maybe some bigger ones from the past year or so have done 200,000 or less.  By the way that number comes from a few very successful films well known in the market and they’ve been out for almost 10 years.  They still are moving on shelves, one of them even picked up by Sony recently, given a new cover, and re-released as if it was brand new.  STANDING FIRM looks like it could have a long life, and if we do a second film sometime soon like I think we will, it’ll get new life breathed into it!

Spring is going to be fun…and I look forward to every moment!

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A Proud Dad – A Blessing From My Father

My Wonderful Parents...LOVE YOU GUYS!

My Wonderful Parents...LOVE YOU GUYS!

From Kyle: There’s a few moments in life that really stick with you.  Weddings, Birthdays, Graduations, etc.  The normal things people think about.  Today I had one I’m adding to my list.  I received this email from my Dad today and asked him to reword it a little for all of you to read.  One thing a son treasures is approval from the father (that’ll preach!), and today I got a formal Blessing from mine.  Also as a side note in case many of you weren’t aware or didn’t watch the Behind The Scenes of the DVD yet…most of the marriage issues in the film are based on much of what my mother went through being the only Christian in the marriage for most of the time.This made the film very personal not just for me, but my family and my parents.  Perhaps that adds some more depth to the following and how much a moment this really was for my Dad.

Also, thanks Dad if you’re reading this for having the courage to stomach having some of your past mistakes out for the world to see.  The film in more ways than one is an example of God using all things for good to them that love Him (Rom 8:28).  I love you Dad, and I’m so Blessed to be your son.

“My day was blessed and interesting. My name is Rick Prohaska, I’m Kyle’s ( the Director’s) dad, I live in Ransomville NY however I work in Augusta Georgia as a Civil Engineer on a long term Nuclear Construction project. I went to get my Harley serviced today and decided after to go to the “LifeWay” Christian Store a mile from my condo to see if the Standing Firm DVD was on sale at the store and to browse. I went up and down a few rows and low and behold there it was…… my son’s first ever Movie with my friends face on the cover “ Rob Reisman” right smack on the cover. I grabbed one to buy and it appeared there were a few more DVD’s left in the slot and went about my looking about the store and decided to go back and take one more proud look and I could not find it, but I noticed the sale sign below the row and someone had placed 4 other different movies in the slot. There was a couple standing right there and I had to mention with the movie in my hand that they were all gone? This kind lady looked at me and said while showing me what was in her hand she had purchased the last one.

I thanked her and told her a little about the movie and my Director Son Kyle and she said she knows she will like the movie because by reading the back cover those are just the types of movies she and her family love to watch. The others around over heard me say my son directed the movie and they were sort of in disbelief asking questions, let’s face it how many times can you say you actually met someone in a DVD store that says something like that.LOL. Obviously amused, I went to the check out and did the whole scenario over again and informed the staff that the Standing Firm DVD’s are presently all gone on the shelf and would appreciate someone restocking the shelves a soon as possible. Everyone broke out laughing, The things as a parent you will never forget all the days of your life…….folks this was one of them. God is good and to think he saved a wretch like me. I love you Kyle.”

- A Proud Dad

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Fighting Me

You know, jealousy is a tough thing to bear.  Sometimes it can be so strong in my mind.  All this week I’ve been pretty depressed.  I haven’t felt like I’ve been productive so naturally I started thinking of ways to try and be, to do something useful.  I thought about next year, the next few months, then started thinking about all the people I know that seem to have so much going for them and making enormous amounts of money at my age with more opportunities pouring in every day.  Even today talking to a friend he mentioned getting an offer to make about 50k in about 3 weeks doing some work.  That’s more than I have ever made in a year, about twice as much actually.  In three weeks mind you.  Even while talking he had to leave for a second because he had gotten a phone call for more work.  Things like that seem to happening around me a lot lately and I think it’s because God is trying to teach me something very critical.  THIS WORLD MEANS NOTHING, Christ means everything, I mean nothing, Christ means everything, what I want means nothing, Christ means everything, material possessions mean nothing, Christ means everything, and on and on it goes.  I really had to break myself today and tell myself to shut up.  Somehow the enemy had me convinced that I wasn’t doing anything and was going nowhere.  Have I forgotten where I’ve come from?  What has God done in the last few years of my life?  How could I even think how I was…I can’t believe myself.  I have two jobs, both of which look to be making me more than I’ve ever made in a year.  One of them is marketing a film for the entire year and I’m only 21 years old.  Another is working for one of the most well known Christian filmmakers ever.  I have a feature film almost completed after 3 years of tireless work, and it’s possible it could be in national stores this August, just after my 22nd birthday.  I have a girlfriend who loves me and is one of the greatest people in my life.  I have parents who love me, a house to live in, my expenses are pretty low, my income is high, God has gifted me with talents to use for His names sake…WHAT AM I DOING!

I’m telling you…anybody that may read this blog.  Please do not put me on a pedestal.  I don’t say that to sound self-righteous, as if I would ever be even remotely worthy of being put on one or could understand if somebody did.  Do not place me in some untouchable place, because I fail all the time.  I’m a human being who makes a ton of mistakes.  If there’s one thing I’ve learned in the past few years, it’s that people who you come to love and respect, are just as capable of tearing you down, disappointing you, etc. than anybody else.  Nothing about their knowledge, age, status, etc. means anything in those situations.  All fall short of perfection.  Just being honest with all of you, I’m not a prime example to be followed.  I thank all that read this and gain something positive from it, but God gets the credit for that because more often than not this blog is full of my crap and not my Christ.  Shame on me for that, but I’m glad God uses it somehow…

God is doing great things, and I’m really excited to see what new opportunities open after this film comes out.  I don’t know where I’m going with this career or what I’m going to do completely, but God does.  Just doing the best I can to keep up…I have no reasons to be complaining, NONE.

We have about 125 churches signed up to receive information about how to hold church screenings of Standing Firm when the time comes.  That’s really awesome news for me.  The list grows every day.  I’m stoked to see how many of our list actually sign up to have a screening at their church, that’s going to be awesome.  We won’t be in theaters but we could be at a church near you! ;)

Thanks to all who read this and decide to come back…I appreciate the support.  Blessings to you!

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